I wonder why everytime people will call woman with nice abs and perfect skin tone beautiful. Maybe thats just their perspective and I feel like stating mine. (:

For me, a beautiful woman doesn't necessarily be the one with pimple-free, smooth, flawless, radiant skin. A beautiful woman doesn't have to a healthy normal person with muscles and fair-looking. A beautiful woman doesn't have to have soft, tangle-free hair like the one in every shampoo advertisement. A beautiful woman doesnt have to be the Miss Beauty Pageant. A beautiful woman doesn't have to be someone who wears the least amount of clothings in public.

A beautiful woman can be someone who is obese or even an aneroxic. A beautiful woman can be the one with the most pimples in their faces. A beautiful woman can be someone who have the worse hair in history. A beautiful woman doesnt have to be Miss Popular in school or even Miss World. What matters to me, is how a woman uphold their modesty. Not someone who is the most outstanding, but the most humble and strong. Not someone who is sexy, showing their flesh off, but someone who preserves themselves for their husbands and only them. Not someone who has nice abs, but with the heart of purity. Not some gossip girls, but someone who is sincere in almost everything. Not someone who express their affections in public but someone who keep their feelings in their heart. There's this hadith which says "Its better for you to keep quiet than talk" (something like that). Why cant some of you comply to that simple thing?

I find that boys who go around whistling at girls with huge asses or boobs are just losers, really. Girls, why show your assets when its only for your future husbands to see? When I look at people who go around showing their fleshes off, I find it saddening. When I look at girls who care about more than what people think of their hair and other appearances, than what people think of their heart, its depressing. And also, when I look at girls who take pictures just to show their cleavages off, I, personally, find all of you desperate. Desperate for the attention from the other sex. Seems that everyone is drifting away from what is taught in Islam. Its these little things which keep me thinking all the time. Its just so sad, really.